![]() ![]() Once you have a crystal clear image in your mind for what it is you want and how it is you want to live, you are then capable of beginning to enact and create it. Instead of saying: "I hope to do that one day," say, "I am strategizing how to do that now." Instead of thinking: "I will be happy when I am in a different place in my life," think, "I am completely capable of being happy right here and right now, nothing is holding me back."īeing able to imagine what it is you want out of your life is absolutely essential for creating it, because if you don't know where you're going, you won't know which way to turn first. Though you shouldn't say things like "I drive a convertible," or "I am a CEO," if they are not in fact true, do start speaking about what it is you want out of life not in the context that you will one day pursue it, but that you are already living it. Speak your success as a present fact, not a future plan. Make your newsfeed a place that can catalyze your growth, instead of lessening your perception of your worth.ĥ. Unfollow people who make you feel bad about yourself and follow those who are constantly posting motivational messages and interesting ideas. Keep an inspirational note on a post-it next to your computer. Change your morning alarm on your phone to read the message: "CONGRATULATIONS!!!" Make sure that the items that you see and touch most often bring you positivity and hopefulness. ![]() Keep a bottle of champagne in the fridge. Surround yourself with positive reinforcement. They have nothing to do with what you are or aren't capable of.Ĥ. The point is that other people's fears are projections of their own situations. People who are in unhappy marriages will warn you that it is difficult and that you should enjoy your remaining time as "single" individuals. If you announce your engagement, people who are in happy marriages will be elated for you. The way people respond to news of your success will tell you how they are really doing in their lives. Don't allow other people's fears to cast shadows of doubt. Instead, give yourself permission to step into a whole, happy, healthy, grounded and meaningful existence.ģ. If you have a subconscious association between success being amoral, or corrupt, of course you're not going to do what you need to do to live the life you want to live. Give yourself permission to be happy and successful, and not feel guilty about it. Instead of regurgitating the same old narrative of believing you'll be happy once you're 10 pounds, one promotion and two life events down-the-line, work on changing your inner monologue to: "I allow my life to be good."
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